Pastoral Leadership Means Sharing your Life Message

"Your lives are echoing the Master's Word ... The news
of your faith in God is out. We don't even have to
say anything anymore - you're the message!"
1 Thess. 1:8 (Msg)

God has put a life message within you.

When you became a believer you also became God's messenger. God wants to speak to the world through you. Paul said, "...we speak the truth before God, as messengers of God."

You have a storehouse of experiences that God wants to use to bring others into his family. The Bible says "Those who believe in the Son of God have the testimony of God in them." (1 John 5:10a - GW)

There are four parts to your life message:

- Your testimony: the story of how you began a relationship with Jesus.
- Your life lessons: the most important lessons God has taught you.
- Your godly passions: the issues God shaped you care about most.
- The Good News: the message of salvation.

God wants you to share your testimony

Your testimony is the story of how Christ has made a difference in your life. Peter tells us that we were chosen by God " do his work and speak out for him, to tell others of the night-and-day difference he made for you." (1 Peter 2:9 – Msg)

This is the essence of witnessing – simply reporting your personal experiences with the Lord. In a courtroom, a witness isn't expected to argue the case, prove the truth, or press for a verdict; that is the job of attorneys. Witnesses just tell what happened to them.

Jesus said, "You will be my witnesses." (Acts 1:8 – NIV)

He did NOT say, "You must be my attorney." He wants you to tell your story to others. Sharing your testimony is an essential part of your mission on earth, and I believe it is an essential part of being a pastor.

In many ways, your personal, authentic testimony is more effective than a sermon.

Personal stories are also easier to relate to than principles and people love to hear them; they capture our attention, and we remember them longer. Unbelievers would probably lose interest if you started quoting theologians, but they have a natural curiosity about experiences they've never had. Shared stories build a relational bridge that Jesus can walk across from your heart to theirs.

Another value of your testimony is that it bypasses intellectual defenses. Many people who won't accept the authority of the Bible will listen to a humble, personal story. That's why on six different occasions Paul used his testimony to share the gospel instead of quoting Scripture. (Acts 22 to Acts 26)

The Bible says, "Be ready at all times to answer anyone who asks you to explain the hope you have in you, but do it with gentleness and respect." (1 Peter 3:15-16 – TEV) The best way to "be ready" is to write out your testimony and then memorize the main points.

Divide it into four parts:
- What my life was like before I met Jesus.
- How I realized I needed Jesus.
- How I committed my life to Jesus.
- The difference Jesus has made in my life.

Of course, you have many other testimonies besides your salvation story. You have a story for every experience where God has helped you. You should make list of all the problems, circumstances, and crises that God has brought you through. Then be sensitive and use the story that your unbelieving friend will best relate to. Different situations call for different testimonies.

God wants you to share your life lessons

The second part of your life message is the truths that God has taught you from experiences with him. These are learnings about God, relationships, problems, temptations, and other aspects of life. David prayed, "God, teach me lessons for living so I can stay the course." (Psalm 119:33 – Msg)

Sadly, we never learn from a lot that happens to us. Of the Israelites, the Bible says, "Over and over God rescued them, but they never learned - until finally their sins destroyed them." (Psalm 106:43 – Msg) You've probably met people like that.

While it is wise to learn from experience, it is wiser to learn from the experiences of others. There isn't enough time to learn everything in life by trial and error. We must learn from the life lessons of each other, and as pastor you can lead the way in this regard. The Bible says, "A warning given by an experienced person to someone willing to listen is more valuable than ... jewelry made of the finest gold." (Prov. 25:12 – TEV)

Write down the major life lessons you've learned so you can share them with others. We should be grateful Solomon did this because it gave us the books of Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, which are filled with practical lessons on living. Imagine how much needless frustration could be avoided if we learn from each other's life lessons.

Mature people develop the habit of extracting lessons from everyday experiences. I urge you to make a list of your life lessons. You haven't really thought about them unless you've written them down.

Here are a few questions to jog your memory and get your started:
- What has God taught me from failure? (Psalm 51)
- What has God taught me from a lack of money? (Phil. 4:11-13)
- What has God taught me from pain or sorrow or depression? (2 Cor. 1:4-10)
- What has God taught me through waiting? (Psalm 40)
- What has God taught me through illness? (Psalm 119:71)
- What has God taught me from disappointment? (Gen. 50:20)
- What have I learned from my family, my church, my relationships, my small group, and my critics?

God wants you to share your godly passions

God is a passionate God. He passionately loves some things and passionately hates other things. As you grow closer to him, he'll give you a passion for something he cares about deeply so you can be a spokesman for him in the world. It may be a passion about a problem, a purpose, a principle, or a group of people. Whatever it is, you'll feel compelled to speak up about it and do what you can to make a difference.

You cannot keep yourself from talking about what you care about most. Jesus said, "A man's heart determines his speech." (Matt. 12:34 – LB)

Two examples are:

- David, who said, "My zeal for God and his work burns hot within me." (Psalm 69:?? – LB)
- Jeremiah, who said, "Your message burns in my heart and bones, and I cannot keep silent." (Jer. 20:9 – CEV)

God gives some people a godly passion to champion a cause. It's often a problem they personally experienced such as abuse, addiction, infertility, depression, a disease, or some other difficulty. Sometimes God gives people a passion to speak up for a group of others who can't speak for themselves: the unborn, the persecuted, the poor, the imprisoned, the mistreated, the disadvantaged, and those who are denied justice. The Bible is filled with commands to defend the defenseless.

God uses passionate people to further his Kingdom. Don't be afraid to preach on your passions.

God gives us different passions so everything he wants done in the world will get done. You should not expect everyone else to be passionate about your passion. Instead we must listen to and value each other's life message because nobody can say it all. Never belittle someone else's godly passion. The Bible says, "It is fine to be zealous, provided the purpose is good." ( Gal. 4:18 – NIV)

God wants you to share the Good News

What is the good news?

- "The good news shows how God makes people right with himself--that it begins and ends with faith." (Romans 1:17 – NCV)
- "For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people's sins against them. This is the wonderful message he has given us to tell others." (2 Cor. 5:19 – NLT)

The good news is that when we trust God's grace to save us through what Jesus did, our sins are forgive, we get a purpose for living, and we're promised a future home in heaven.

There are hundreds of great books on how to share the good news, but all the training in the world won't motivate you to witness for Christ until you learn to love lost people the way God does.

God has never made a person he didn't love. Everybody matters to him. When Jesus stretched out his arms wide on the cross he was saying "I love you this much!"

The Bible says, "For Christ's love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all..." (2 Cor. 5:14) Whenever you feel apathetic about your mission in the world, spend some time thinking about what Jesus did for you on the cross.

We must care about unbelievers because God does. Love leaves no choice. The Bible says, "There is no fear in love; perfect love drives out all fear." (1 John 4:18 – TEV)

A parent will run into a burning building to save a child because their love for that child is greater than their fear. If you've been afraid to share the good news with those around you, ask God to fill your heart with his love for them

The Bible says "God does not want anyone to be lost, but he wants all people to change their hearts and lives." (2 Peter 3:9 – NCV)

As long as you know one person who doesn't know Christ, you must keep praying for them, serving them in love, and sharing the good news. And as long as there is one person in your community who isn't in the family of God, your church must keep reaching out. The church that doesn't want to grow is saying to the world, "You can go to hell."

What are you willing to do so that the people you know will go to heaven? Invite them to church? Share your story? Give them this book? Take them a meal? Pray for them every day until they are saved? Your mission field is all around you. Don't miss the opportunities God is giving you.

The Bible says, "Make the most of your chances to tell others the Good News. Be wise in all your contacts with them." (Col. 4:5 – LB)

Is anyone going to be in heaven because of you? Will anyone in heaven be able to say to you, "I want to thank you. I'm here because you cared enough to share the good news with me"?

Imagine the joy of greeting people in heaven that you helped get there. The eternal salvation of a single soul is more important than anything else you'll ever achieve in life. Only people are going to last forever.

God created you to fulfill five purposes on earth: He made you to be being a member of his family, a model of his character, a magnifier of his glory, a minister of his grace, and a messenger of his good news to others. Of these five purposes, the fifth can only be done on earth. The other four you'll keep doing in eternity. That's why spreading the Good News is so important; you only have a short time to share your life message and fulfill your mission.

This article is used by permission from From Rick Warren's Ministry ToolBox, a free weekly e-newsletter for those in ministry.